The last time I worked the resident creepy client came in and I had the joy of working on him.
I’d been warned about him several times but I didn’t grasp the severity of his creep factor. He said things like “I want you to enjoy my body” and “Discretion is very important. Like what happens in here is between you and me” and wanting my number to arrange something outside of work, but oh no don’t tell anyone. They don’t need to know.
Hold the fuck up.
After the massage I told my boss that he was a creep I was not comfortable working on him again. I told him he was intermixing getting to know me with hitting on me. I didn’t tell him that he said he liked my look and had always liked black women but had never been with one. I didn’t tell him he wanted to be my friend because it’s hard to find friends and it’s okay to do whatever with friends. I told my boss that he asked for my number and I gave him the wrong one.
On the way home I texted my friend who helped me get the job and asked if he acted the same way towards her. She told me he was just like that and maybe because she’s old she’s used to it. But he gives a great tit massage (no nipple). I asked if he asked for her number. She said yes. I told her I have him the wrong one. She told me she’d never do that. She made it seem like i’d been rude to him because I gave him the wrong number and I should have asserted a boundary (which that last is true) but
hold the fuck up.
It doesn’t matter how old or experienced you are, when someone makes you uncomfortable you don’t have to deal with that person. You don’t have to put aside your personal level of comfort because that’s just how someone is. It was uncomfortable from the very beginning. This man had his hands positioned so it looked as if he were jacking himself off. I don’t have to deal with that and I don’t have to feel bad for giving him a fake number. I should have set some sort of boundary. I don’t know this man that everyone seems to be so friendly with. He has made every massage therapist that works there uncomfortable in some capacity but he likes trading massages and gives a heck of a massage so yeah let’s continue taking his money.
Maybe I’m overreacting.